Cool quote

“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.” 
― Bob Marley

Ughhh

I have to much I could post but really don't feel like typing everything out.  I'll just say I'm back to the drawing boards and haven't been myself lately.  Oh well, I'll keep keeping on.

Snowing in the Summer

"Whoa...it's going to snow in the summer.  Matter of fact, now I know it's the last days."

LOL  That's what my cousin said when I brought a girl to a family cookout.  I guess I don't blame him.  It's probably been close to 5 years since my last relationship, so to the family it probably was a shock.  I like to take things slow and not rush into things, especially when it comes to dating.  But I found someone that I care about and think is really special.  We've been friends for a few years and seem to compliment each other well.  Although our backgrounds are different, we have a lot of the same interests, friends, outlooks and have the same sense of humor.  Just becAuse I haveN't been in A relationship in a while, I'm a little nervous, but I have anY doubts that we're a good fit and can work out. My parents/family and I loved seeing her interact with everyone.  This going to be fun.

Taxes

Here it is April 11 and I still haven't done my taxes yet. The due date is April 15. Usually I would be spending my return by now, but for the first time in the history of my life, I'm going to owe. (Florida Evans Voice) Dang...Dang...DANG!!! So obviously, I've been in no rush to file. If I actually brought home what I made I would be balling. But Americans end up spending %50 of income on taxes, whether federal, state, or taxes or purchases. Why do we pay income taxes anyway? Check the link below.

http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0005921.html

Needs vs Wants

It seems life is a constant struggle between needs and wants. Like for instance, my car Maxxine is paid off and is running great. I love it. My NEED of a dependable vehicle is filled. But I WANT a Dodge Challenger. I mean look at it, it's pure sex on wheels.

I know I don't need it and won't try to get one unless something drastic happens, but man do I want one. I'm trying to keep my eye simple (Matthew chapter 6) so this is kind of an easy decision.

A harder one is when it comes to dating. I can think of several sisters who are/were interested in me and would probably be a great gf. They're spiritual, independent, cool, etc and could probably fill needs I have (get your mind out the gutter lol) and "make me better" word to Ne-yo and Fabolous. At the same time, I don't get the feeling of WANTING to be with them. I think wanting to be with a person is huge and is the main reason I've waited so long since my last relationship. I don't get this feeling often, and the last few times I've really wanted to be with someone it never jumped off for one reason or another. Now this leads me to a question I'm still trying to answer....is it "settling" if I choose someone who is a good person, has a lot going for them and fills my needs, but that I necessarily don't have a strong desire for? Chemistry is huge and is something that you can't manufacture. So even though I'm getting the feeling of wanting to be with someone I want it to be the right someone. Someone who is good for me and I really want to be with. Oh well, I guess we'll see.

Sigh....

I know a girl
She puts the color inside of my world
But she's just like a maze
Where all of the walls all continually change
And I've done all I can
To stand on her steps with my heart in my hands
Now I'm starting to see
Maybe it's got nothing to do with me

Home Sweet Home

So this past weekend was a whirlwind. Went to the movies with a friend and saw the Hunger Games which was pretty good. Stayed up wayyyy too late (4 am) and paid for it on Saturday. Woke up and rode down to Hampton to visit the fam. My mother had been getting on me about seeing everyone. I was supposed to get fitted for the tux for Jason's wedding, but they had to reschedule because everyone was busy.

Even though I live 3 hours away I still wait until going home to get stuff done to the whip (if it's not too major). It's better because the prices are cheaper and I can trust the shops since I've been going there for years. Anyway, one my way home I saw a cousin standing at the bus stop I hadn't seen in years. Gave him a ride home, and on the way to my parents I bumped into one of my uncles. He came by the house and chopped it up a few minutes. I took a much needed nap and woke up when Skylar came waking me up with my mom. That little girl is CRAZY and has way too much personality for a 3 year old lol. Me and Rodney went and visited a homie and then a sister from our old congregation. Next we went bowling with my mom, Christina and 6 little cousins. That was an adventure because those kids are outta control. I miss being around them because they're hilarious. Next ran to Buffalo Wild Wings with a few friends and another set of aunt and uncles and cousins. Afterwards ran down to Hadji's for an impromptu house party. By this time I'm running on fumes but hanging in there. Got to see alot of friends I hadn't seen in a minute.

When most of the people left, the crew stayed and talked about our memories and stories from growing up until 4 am. Talking about all the stuff we did together reminded me how much I miss the fam and how good of a childhood I had. We

The Sunday meeting wasn't until 12 and I was glad. Came home afterwards and slept like a baby. Mom cooked, and me Hadji and Rodney hit the Williamsburg Outlets. From there I made moves back to MD. It was a tiring weekend, but I really enjoyed it all around.

Blah, Blah, Blah

I know, I know, I haven't blogged in about a month. Sue me. Um...what did I miss? Went on a quick cruise SuperBowl weekend. Left Friday and came back Monday. Saw the Bahamas and even better the Patriots lost the game (Yes!!).

Work has been crazy and keeping me jumping as usual. Got sent up to NY for a few days which was cool. Got to kick it with a few friends and went to Dallas BBQ's for some of their amazing chicken and drinks. Let's see....looking forward to Aux Pioneering in March, can't miss taking advantage of the 30 hrs. It should be good working out with the different.

I'm happy the weather is starting to break. The winter is so depressing and dark. It makes me lazy and lethargic lol. But spring and summer....ahhh I can smell the cookouts now. Anyways, until next time.......

'Good Day'

So yesterday was a good day. A really good day. A really, really good day. It's ironic that on my day that was so good, I stumbled upon this guy who did research and figured out the exact date of Ice Cube's classic song 'Today was a Good Day'

Good research by this dude. Stolen from http://murkavenue.tumblr.com

CLUE 1:

“went to short dogs house,
they was watching Yo MTV
RAPS”
Yo MTV RAPS first aired:
Aug 6th 1988

CLUE 2:
Ice Cubes single “today was a good day” released on:
Feb 23 1993

CLUE 3:
”The Lakers beat the Super
Sonics”
Dates between Yo MTV Raps air date AUGUST 6 1988 and the release of the single FEBRUARY 23 1993 where the Lakers beat the Super Sonics:

Nov 11 1988 114-103
Nov 30 1988 110-106
Apr 4 1989 115-97
Apr 23 1989 121-117
Jan 17 1990 100-90
Feb 28 1990 112-107
Mar 25 1990 116-94
Apr 17 1990 102-101
Jan 18 1991 105-96
Mar 24 1991 113-96
Apr 21 1991 103-100
Jan 20 1992 116-110

CLUE 4:
Dates of those Laker wins over SuperSonics where it was a clear day with no Smog:
Nov 30 1988
Apr 4 1989
Jan 18 1991
Jan 20 1992

CLUE 5:
“Got a beep from Kim, and she can **** all night”
beepers weren’t adopted by mobile phone companies until the 1990s. Dates left where mobile beepers were available to public:
Jan 18 1991
Jan 20 1992

CLUE 6:
Ice Cube starred in the film “Boyz in the hood” that released late Summer of 1991, but was being filmed mid-late 1990 early 1991 and Ice Cube was busy on set filming the movie Jan 18 1991 too busy to be lounging around the streets with no plans. Ladies and Gentlemen..

The ONLY day where:
Yo MTV Raps was on air
It was a clear and smogless day
Beepers were commercially sold
Lakers beat the SuperSonics
and Ice Cube had no events to attend was…

JANUARY 20 1992
National Good Day Day

Internet Meme's

With all this stuff about the SOPA and PIPA bills (look it up if you don't know what they are) possibly being passed, I thought I should mention how much I love the internet. It goes back to the AOL days with the 56k modems and being pissed when someone picked up the phone and knocking you off the internet. The web puts the world at your fingertips, and its so easy to google whatever info you need. It's my primary source of news and information. Can't lie though, I really love using it for dumb stuff like laughing at Internet Memes. You know, Foul Bachelor Frog, Good Guy Greg, Successful Black Guy, etc etc. They're hilarious and very witty. Anyway, heres to the Interwebz!!

My mother came up to see me. I love her. I love her cooking. I don't want her to leave tomorrow. That is all.

Keeping in Touch

An old friend (Marcell) dropped by the crib last night. We used to run together down in Va before we both moved up here to MD. It had been close to a year since I'd seen him, even though he lives less than an hour away. It made me think of how many friends I have but haven't kept in touch with like I should have. I have 345 contacts in my phone, 618 Facebook friends, & 77 followers on Twitter. How many of them do I really know and can say that we're friends? How many do I keep in touch with?

I'm gonna make it a goal to do better at keeping in contact with friends.

Did Ya Miss Me?

So I was talking with a close friend, and got the suggestion to start a blog. I thought about it, and then remembered that I had created this one waaaay back when. It's been neglected since 2007 (smh), but I'm gonna give it another shot and try to keep it updated.

So much has changed since my last post. My closest aunt (Victoria) passed away in January '08, and the family hasn't quite been the same since. I think about how much she's missed. J had a baby and is FINALLY engaged to Candace. Erica got married, and so did Crystal. I moved away from Hampton in December '08 to Maryland and bought a crib. Life is moving so fast that it's hard to keep up. It's weird that when visiting Hampton it doesn't quite feel like "home" anymore because so much has changed with the city and people there. Even my parents house looks/feels totally different from when I was there. I can't believe my younger brother is 21 now and we can go to the bar and have a few drinks. My high school is planning our 10-year class reunion and I can't help but think that it's all been a blur

It feels weird "growing up"- a lot of my friends are getting married and having kids. This line from a Kanye song sticks with me and makes me think about where I am:

"My friend showed me pictures of his kids,

And all I could show him was pictures of my crib…"

I'm 27 now and overall I'm happy. I like my job, the area I'm in, and things are going good in the Congregation. But I'm kinda at the "what's next" stage, and trying to figure out what that is going to be interesting.

Anyway, just wanted to drop a quick update to get the ball rolling and try to get some momentum going. Peace!!